"The real problem here in our churches is the experiential standard that our churches require before bringing our young people to the Table. When the conservative Reformed world stops losing her sons and daughters to the world, then I would be willing to say we don't have a version of this problem any more. Lack of assurance is a two-edge sword. There are people who don't have assurance who desperately want it. There are others who don't have it (and don't really want it anymore) because the church chased them away. The Master is busy with the regenerate people, we said."