Pray more, and pray with other Christians. Focus your thoughts above, where Christ is (Colossians 3:1-4).
Are you tempted to berate and belittle your children or your spouse?
"What kind of environment have I created where he feels he’s not allowed to make mistakes?""When did it become okay to constantly correct him and lecture him and point out every little thing I didn’t like as if he were making some kind of mistake?"
A basic and helpful piece on gossip.
Practical advice on cultivating mentoring relationships (without being awkward).